Most Sex Advice Is Bad Advice

Sex Advice

Hi, I'm Mia, a female sex advisor or instructor here at MasterYourSexLife. I've read literally hundreds of crazy books, ebooks, seduction forums and watched DVDs on all matters relating to lovemaking, relationships and how to get the woman of your dreams! These have covered every topic you can think of, including sex help, common sex problems, tips for anal sex and problems during sex.

So now I'm really excited by the work we're doing here at MasterYourSexLife, what with all the products and the live workshops that are available to everyone. And what exactly is making me so excited? It's because the products we've got here are totally unique, modern, real and fresh-looking. I don't know of anyone else teaching men what MasterYourSexLife is teaching them in this real-life, real situation way. They're breaking through all the political correctness and taboo and explaining the facts about what really works.

As a new resident sex advisor here I can honestly say that what we have available to you are products and workshops designed from a truly unique perspective. Our live sex guide, workshop courses and relationship products are all based on experience and fact and not on information from the usual sources - the medical fraternity, academia, surveys, market research or from other random theories. So what do I mean when I say that?

I mean that much of the advice you get currently is from experts with limited practical experience, from a medical perspective or it's just too esoteric. Say you buy a book or DVD that is an oral sex guide or anal sex guide or whatever. You read or watch it and think, ok fine I'll try that. But have you ever questioned what has made these people experts? Where have they got their information from? Is it actually based on personal, practical experience with 1000's of women?

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More often than not the information they're using comes from the academic and medical world or from surveys or similar research with only a small subset from actual practical experience. Therefore you may have a professor of sexual psychology who possesses mostly theoretical knowledge distilled purely from the results of questionnaires, surveys and other sexual research and not the practical experience gained by applying his knowledge to 1000's of women.

This means the oral sex help or anal sex help they're trying to teach you is based on theory only and their limited or even non-existent practical experience with maybe their wife and perhaps several previous partners. In other words, an expert telling you what you should do based on theory, market research, questionnaires and probably quite a lot of bogus feedback. They haven't personally tried these theories out on 1000's of women.

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They only know what is reported back to them and let me tell you that, from my experience, what is reported back isn't always accurate or interpreted correctly. For example, there is one particular erogenous zone called the deep spot that induces very strong orgasms in women. The theory based sexual expert will instruct you about this, perhaps telling you about an oral sex technique or give you a sex positions guide to help with the task. They'll even tell you it works best if you do it in such-and-such a way. They are basing that knowledge on their own limited personal experience with perhaps only a small number of partners or from theory only! Think about that, it's mainly theory! They can't give you the real intimate detail and how to apply that to any given woman. We, on the other hand, can give you that level of detail!

Think about this for a moment. A so-called professional "sexpert" with limited practical experience? If you want to be a great golfer you go to the club professional, somebody who plays everyday off scratch, not somebody who's only read the theory in magazines and played a few rounds of crazy-golf with his wife on holiday! Sure you could might pick up a couple of things but you would never master it. This is what its like with most sexperts. They are just theory teachers!

There's also what we term the esoteric type of advice based more on spirituality and sensuality. This is great in the right place but it often never gets down to the detail on what you actually need to do and how.

Here are some genuine quotes from these type of courses: "This pose is so named because your partner's movements look like the flick of a fish's tail as it darts through the water." Or "The dragon enables lovers to touch each other in many places and increase their feelings of intimacy. The name derives from the fact that the man, resting on his hands and knees, looks like a Dragon. This mythical creature features in the names of several Taoist poses - The Dragon being both magical and fiery." What does that actually teach you? I'm not really sure! But its NOT the way we teach.

These techniques are all about creating a connection through touching and spirituality. There's no discussion about how best you can apply an oral sex technique that will take most women to orgasm. These courses are often far too esoteric for the average guy in the street. Asking a spiritual sex advisor questions relating to a particular technique and being told you need to experiment to get in touch with your partner's feelings is great but it only takes you so far. Understanding the sexual psychology of women is very important but we do it from a basis of sound social psychology and experience, not from spirituality.

This is what makes us different. We come from both an academic and practical background, something we believe to be very important. We know what actually works in the multitude of real world situations any man's liable to encounter. For example I am currently doing a thesis in the psychology of sexuality but I am also a bisexual women who has had sexual relationships with over 200 women. Nathan Xavier, our lead male sex advisor, has a background in social psychology and has had full sex with over 1200 women as a paid male escort or gigolo. Being paid to pleasure women meant he had to learn a skill set that he could apply to all women in order to give them the satisfaction they craved. We therefore have the real experience that most sexperts do not.

So if you listen to our free audio guide to anal sex available above, the advice we give comes from an anal sex technique that has been proven to work on hundreds of women. That's proven practically, not theoretically! But I don't need to tell you any of this, you just need to read the testimonials of some of our students as they relate the awesome experiences they've had since attending our workshops...

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We do not provide advice for couples. We are specialists in helping men and helping men become independently good in bed with as many women as you they choose to be with, be that just one or hundreds.

Conversely, we don't teach you how to become good at pleasuring just your wife or girlfriend. That's easy! We teach you how you can be great with all women on both an emotional and physical level so you'll be able to confidently choose the woman that you want.

Our workshops and products address many of the male sex problems we are aware of, especially those around sexual performance and sexual confidence, what to do and how to do, what turns her on and how to turn her into the woman you want.

Also, don't worry if you are new to all this. We also provide first time sex help all the way through to very experienced tweaking. If you are here looking for positions sex then check out the sex positions guide links in the articles section for more on that. This also features the oral sex positions that we get asked about most. So go check those out.

You can also read testimonials from other students, watch sample videos and listen to our audio course.

Anyone can become a sexual master

If you have any preconceptions that you don't have what it takes to become a sexual master then you need to start changing that mindset now and start believing it: you can become a sexual master!

So yes, anyone can become a sexual master. We've had 100s of emails asking whether just about everything under the sun can affect someone becoming good in the bedroom. Not just the common questions either like penis size, weight, body shape, current sexual performance, guilt, shyness, weak erections, low sex drive and so on. We've had some quite unusual ones too, like does having small hands mean I will never be able to please a woman? (No it doesn't!). We can show you how all of these things can either be improved or in most cases proven that they aren't even an issue in the first place.

You can contact me personally, or any of the instructors here, any time to ask questions. We are usually very busy but we will always try to answer your questions.

The ultimate sex guide from MasterYourSexLife.com can be found by checking out the live workshops or the products sections. We offer both group workshops and private consultation. Check the links out at the top.

If you need any sex advice then please check out one of our workshops or products or contact us directly via the contact us link. Hope to see you soon.