How To Make Sex Techniques Work

 

I'm going to talk in this article about the core areas you need to learn in order to become a sexual master and why learning sex techniques alone doesn't work on all women. All the four core areas I'm about to run through must be mastered in order for you to have full sexual mastery and understanding. Many people make the mistake of thinking that after mastering just one area (often just techniques) they have a full understanding. So let's begin with the first core area required to become a master.

1. Basic skills, exercises and sexual techniques

The first area you need to master I categorise as basic skills, exercises and sexual techniques. This is a collection of knowledge I group together as they are the physical acts that are engaged in during sex.
Examples of these include:

• Knowing the female erogenous zones such as the G orgasm spot, the deep spot, the epicenter, the AFE zone and others.
• Understanding how to correctly stimulate these zones and areas both manually, with toys and during intercourse. The training exercises and techniques that increase sexual performance.
• An understanding of how to get an erection on demand, maintain it for as long you desire, control your orgasm indefinitely while at the same time enjoying worry-free sex.
• Training exercises and techniques to increase stimulation and enable longer sex.
• Techniques to intensify and lengthen orgasm and how and when to apply them.
• How to give her different types of orgasm such as the g spot orgasm or the deep spot orgasm.
• How to make her multi orgasmic.
• The science behind arousal and orgasm.
• How to make her orgasm so hard she squirts ejaculate, also known as female ejaculation.
• Anal sex methods, how to do it correctly, how to associate the anus as an erotic area and anal orgasms.
• Mastering oral sex technique: good oral sex, better oral sex, 69 sex tricks, how to give oral sex and how to give good oral sex, how to perform oral sex, sex technique oral and so on.
• Safe sex strategies and safe sex methods to prevent STDs and STIs.

This is just a sample list and should not be considered inclusive but hopefully you get the idea.

The above are examples of some of skills, exercises and sexual techniques in the first core area. These are also probably what most people would consider sexual mastery to be all about. Most people would assume that once you have good sexual technique, you have mastered sex. This is wrong. You would be well on your way to mastery but you wouldn't yet be a master. They may assume for example that great oral sex is about finding oral sex positions and learning some oral sex tricks and different oral sex methods. Knowing this will mean you have a better oral sex technique but mastering sexual techniques alone is not enough. Mastering this one area (technique) will not teach you full sexual mastery. Guys who understand just this one area become just simple love technicians or sexual robots and this is one of the most common complaints we hear from women about men sexually. These guys lack passion, are robotic and can't instil a wanton sexual lust in women. Our own surveys, and many others too, show that a lack of sexual understanding of who the woman is and what she wants on an emotional sexual level was a top complaint. Understanding a woman's sexual emotional needs does not come from learning sex techniques. Skills, exercises and techniques are very important but they only form one of the 4 core areas required for full mastery. There is no point learning the best oral sex technique from one of the oral sex tutorials and applying it if you haven't learnt what she responds to emotionally, what turns her on and what drives her mind wild. This is where the next core area comes in.

2. Sexual Psychology

3. Inner Beliefs

4. Proper Motivation

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Understand and master all four areas and you have complete mastery. It is not essential for everyone to become sexual masters, this article just outlines the requirements for mastery. Most people only need a good understanding of the four core areas and that will be enough to really boost their sex lives. Our products and workshops are designed to help you on your path to better sex.

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Want to know how to make her wild during phone sex? Think about the following things to help you with what to say to her: which of her sexual skills or attributes turn you on and how do they make you feel? How are you feeling right now? What do you want to happen to her or you? What are you going to do to her and what is she going to do to you? Think about things like foreplay, oral, anal, the use of toys, different positions, fantasies and desires. Watch adult films and read erotic books for inspiration if needed. For a much more detailed look into arousing the mind through an understanding of sexual psychology check out our workshops and products.

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If you are interested in learning how to perform anal sex and advanced sex then check out the audio sex course link above. There you'll find we have audio files to download on the following: How to become a sexual master; The benefits of sexual mastery; How to give her anal orgasms; Mastering Sexual Performance and other sex tricks to try. The audios are recorded by various instructors here at masteryoursexlife from both male and female perspectives.

 

SEX FACT: The point of no return

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If you have any further questions related to sex techniques then please do not hesitate to contact us by phone, email or the contact us form. See the contact us link for more details.

If you want to see movies and videos then there are lots of them on this site. If you click on the free stuff link you will see a number of movies showing live workshop sessions and other sex tricks tips. There is also the sex blog. Here you'll find links to many videos on threesomes, foursomes, sex tips and seduction for men. As a man approaches orgasm, he reaches a point of no return (PONR). This is sometimes refereed to in medical terms as "Ejaculatory Inevitability". This is the stage when even with the removal of stimulation a man can't stop himself from ejaculating. A woman however, can be distracted from her orgasm right up to the last minute. Using the latest medical imaging techniques - MRI (Magnetic Resonance Imaging), scientists have discovered that the walls of the vagina lengthen by as much as 75 per cent when aroused and during intercourse.

The final area you need to master is that of proper motivation. You need to decide if you personally want to put the required work in to becoming a sexual master. Like most things in life worth having, you need dedication and motivation to become the best sexually. Becoming a sex master does require effort therefore proper motivation is required. I'm not going bull-shit you by telling you that becoming a sex master requires no effort. It requires proper self motivation and you need to decide how motivated you really are. The third area you need to master is your inner beliefs, your inner thoughts of your inner mind. This is the voice inside your head that tells you you're great one day and a mess the next. This area must be mastered on a sexual level. You need to have a high level of internal belief about yourself, your abilities and about what women want. Your inner beliefs help structure your character and how you project yourself externally. Without strong inner beliefs you'll loose your attractiveness to women, show weak character, turn women off, be unable to control when you orgasm, have inconsistent erection strength and struggle to maintain long term contented sexual relationships. Without solid inner beliefs you can develop issues around shyness, self-consciousness, guilt and so on. Through competence and an understanding of the other three core areas you will develop confidence and the correct inner beliefs will develop themselves. In more extreme cases there are other more advanced methods to help with your inner mind that we have used with outstanding results. The second area you need to master is sexual psychology. The brain is the most powerful sex organ in the body and controls everything during sex. Control the mind and you control the body. Understand her mind and you control her body too. The importance of this area of sexual mastery I cannot over emphasize enough. The brain is such a powerful sex organ that we can all experiences orgasms through the cerebral cortex without any form of stimulation. Examples of these happen when people are extremely aroused, through dreams or wet dreams and hypnosis. If you don't master this key area you can't fully understand all the techniques, sexual intercourse positions, erogenous zones, female oral sex technique and 69 sex tricks! And you won't be able to give her the pleasure she truly craves. Because you won't know what it is she truly craves. Or even how to instil those cravings in her. Mastering the female mind means for example you will understand the difference between what a women says she wants and what she unconsciously responds to and is aroused by; how to discover her fantasies and desires; how to make her comfortable and super horny during sex; how to make her comfortable acting out new or taboo fantasies; understanding the different needs of one women over another; how to instil a desire in her for your own fantasies and so on. These are all areas of sexual psychology to be mastered. We have a number of bisexual female instructors and they can teach you about female sexual psychology from both sides of the coin - from both being a woman and being with women. They understand lesbian sex strategies and the psychology of female orientation. A solid understanding of basic skills, exercises, sexual techniques and sexual psychology is half the story. Now we need to talk about mastering your own mind which moves us onto the next core requirement.